how the sex industry has changed

once upon a time during an era i consider golden i’d pick up clients by placing an ad in the local newspaper.  i was a late bloomer when it came to current advances in technology.  an escort and client board was virtually unfathomable to me for several reasons.  such exposure i considered anathema for all parties involved and for those who valued discretion.  what good was there in placing one self in a potentially embarrassing and untenable position?  when i say all parties i extend that definition to the families of these men.  there is virtue in discretion and i’d always assumed that most of these men would be aghast at the mere thought of alerting the world to their presence in such a manner.

i talked in depth to the men who called.  i rarely asked for more than a first name and small talk led to more talk about their occupation and lives.  it was important to get a feel for these potential clients, how else would one determine they were safe or not law enforcement?  i did outcall exclusively which means i traveled to their place of residence or hotel.  my rate was three hundred per hour.  and that is tax free.  i’d never had a problem with working this way, it offered more privacy and little stress compared to the screening process the current day escort implements.

for example, many modern day escorts refuse to see a potential client unless she has his social security number down pat.  i say this with sarcasm but it is not unheard of and a bit ironic for an industry that claims to value discretion.

ladies be warned that if your husband plays with escorts they could know a lot about you.  more than you think.  your last name, your address, the number to your residence.  these are the most common questions that clients must answer in order to procure an exchange.

there is police to contend with if your husband has a paid membership to one or both of the aforementioned sites i listed.  what if there ever were a sting and a court ordered the ip addresses and credit card numbers turned over?  how will this affect you personally?  will this not allow you to secure your dream job or that security clearance you longed for as your climbed the corporate ladder?  what is to become of your and your children’s future?

the two largest offenders

with today’s modern technology it is easy to find sex.  i’ll bypass the obvious suspects such as www.adultfriendfinder.com and similar outfits designed to prey on your hopes of a romp in the sack with horny lasses waiting to salivate over your manhood.  the only thing guaranteed is you forking out the dollars for a paid membership. free sex is not my area of expertise.  for those who have stopped by and especially the ladies, i think it’s imperative i familiarize you with the the two largest offenders, a den of sin where men congregate with hookers and vice versa.  they are www.bigdoggie.net and www.theeroticreview.com.

these two sites compete with each other.  many have memberships to both because in the sex biz, both have their merits and should complications arise with one, such as law enforcement or server problems, then you can head right over to the other.  they are sort of like cousins who don’t like each other too much.

escorts (a nicer euphemism for hooker) are reviewed by their clients, more often than not, they are married and from my personal observations and own time spent meandering on the forums, many of these men spend a ridiculously inordinate amount of time interacting with women they were supposed to pay, have sex with, and leave.  in that order.

as a wife this should anger you more so than your husband engaging in a no-strings attached quickie.  as a former escort (i shall begin using that word and instead insert hooker for emphasis) i found this behavior to be disturbingly peculiar because i felt that many of these men could have been spending quality time with their families instead.  no wonder their wives didn’t want to make love to them, as they often complained, who would be turned on by a man who spent several hours, day in and out, interacting with an unlimited variety of women ready to meet them at the drop of the hat or the flash of cash?

the modem is the new wave of the future for your husbands to cavort with  “women of ill-repute.”

thank you

thank you for finding my blog.  i hope to bring peace and hope to those in need.  superficially the truth has an ugly mug but upon the drop of the mask one will see it for what it’s worth, the beauty and harmony that resonates as clear as a bell when lovingly set free.